The Vision Thing

 ( A life changing story)

There is one very basic difference between a highly successful man and an ordinary person is that an ordinary person wants to live life, which is influenced by society, and he follows the same path that others have followed to become one of the ordinary people, which is very easy and convenient. Ordinary people to do jobs, earn bread and butter, buy cars and homes, buy some luxury items for that matter and that’s what they may think of, to lead a very refined life which is not really sophisticated which they realize when they grow a little older. On the other hand, a highly successful person has one thing, which has inspired him and has helped him to become an exception and has kept him among the category of 1% people of this world, which is VISION.

A visionary start his life with humble. Initially, They seem to be useless to the world because he is not able to maintain a good life and  cope with the expectations of the society. He goes through all heart breaking experiences and learns from them and makes his vision stronger. He faces all sorts of humility and what not during his journey until he becomes a highly successful person. Many a times it happens that he feels, he might be wrong when 99% of very closed people out of 100 raise their voice against him and try to make him realize that he could have done better in life if he had done something else. That’s where most of the people who try to do something different and make a difference in this world quits. They quit because they could not cope with peer pressure and other kind of pressure, which comes along. However, a visionary is never away from his vision because he knows that he is going to do good tomorrow and will make a difference to the society.  His dream is not only to be a highly successful person and live a lavish life but to do good to others also.

A visionary is always driven by his vision. He breathes vision. He lives with his vision. He sleeps with his vision. He thinks of his vision. His vision is his life. He is so attached to his vision that it’s very difficult to separate him or take him away from it. We can put it this way; if we stop breathing, we’ll die. The same thing will happen to a visionary. He’ll die if he is taken away from his vision.

Visionaries are made of different metals, which is not very found in this world. They are human beings. However, they are different. They think differently. They are not ready to quit. They are the winners in the long run who looks stupid and failures for some time. Think of Abraham Lincoln, Thomas Edison, Dhirubhai Ambani, Sunil Mittal, Amitabh Bachhan, Dr A P J Abdul Kalam. They all are great examples. They all started very slow and humble, kept their vision intact, fought with all odd situations and at last, they are more than simply winners.

A path which looks easy has an end. On the other hand, if you have learned to make your own way, it will never come to an end. It will always be known by your name or else you will simply be a passerby.  Life has given you a choice. Decide who you want to be. A winner, who will be remembered after he is gone or a just a passer by.

Thoughts

'My thoughts are the main cause of my Success & Failure. So, I must hold onto positive thoughts and remove all my negative emotions.'

Overcome your fear

In case we are fearful.

Fear is the worst enemy of a person. It doesn’t let you sleep. It doesn’t let you work. It doesn’t let you do anything. You’re in extreme condition all the time. The best way to overcome fear is to face it. Yes. Go ahead and face it. By then only you’ll overcome it. Whatever kind of fear you have. You can overcome it by facing it. If you are fearful of heights, go and climb the mountain or anything which is at a height. Keep going up and coming down almost every day or whenever you have time until you become fearless. If you do so, it’ll change into a habit and fear will go away forever. Remember, whatever kind of fear you have whether it is Public speaking, English speaking, facing interview, etc. Just go ahead and do it if you want to remove your fear. Fear is nothing but a creation of your own mind. It could be due to an incident that might have taken place at some point of time. As a result, your sub conscious mind got it and believed it. It also happens in case you have developed a wrong belief about something. You might have heard something wrong about it, and you started believing it or it could be circumstantial, which might have occurred due to adverse conditions in life such as financial losses, etc. In case it is a creation of your own mind, then go ahead and face it. In case of circumstantial, which might have occurred due to certain unavoidable conditions, you need to think over it.

In case you’re not able have control over your emotions because you are afraid of the outcome that may take place due to that. Be mentally prepared for that. Think of the worst that could happen in case you’ve decided to face it. The worst fear could be losing someone if you’re in a relationship, or it could be financial losses or it could be losing image in the eye of your own people, it could be anything, whatever is important to you. Under any of the above circumstances, it’s not so easy to decide whether to face it or avoid it. It’s a very common thing. We are human beings and we love to be respected or to stay very close to loved ones, we don’t want to lose anything which means a lot to us. The question here is; then, what to do? The answer to this question is; it totally depends on your gut feeling. If you’re kind of a person who went ahead and got the operation done in case of a wound, then go ahead and get it cured or else feel the pain every day until it gets converted into cancer. Then you might not have a chance to get it cured once it has grown up as cancer. What I am trying to say here is; it’s completely your take. If you are stuck in a kind of problem, which is surely to come today or tomorrow, let’s face it today and get rid of it forever. You can do this by thinking of the worst and by accepting it mentally so that you won’t get a heart attack or be shocked in case that happens the worst happens to you.

Fear is the worst enemy of all, so kill it before it kills you.

Decide to be happy

Happiness has no price and no definition as such. People go to a laughter club just to release their stress and try to be happy. However, this doesn’t help keep them happy always not even for the entire day. The happiness comes from within. You might have experienced a person around you who doesn’t worry about anything and always look happy. Does that mean that he has all the best things of this world? Does that mean that he doesn’t need anything to live? Does that mean that he doesn’t have longings for anything else? It simply means that he has decided to be happy. It means that he is in a habit of being happy. Yes. You have to DECIDE TO BE HAPPY. You have to CHOOSE TO REMAIN HAPPY. You have to DEVELOP A HABIT TO REMAIN HAPPY. Anything can be achieved by developing a habit and if we decide to achieve that. Try this. Try to think of yourself as a comedy character like the famous Mr. Bean when you are alone. Watch his video. Copy him. Try to copy his body language, his expression almost everything you can. It sounds a little childish.  However, who in the entire worlds is happier than a child. Sometimes you have to act childish to remain happy or to take your mind in that happy state. If you find it difficult to do, try this. Think of a child you love the most whenever you feel sad or play some music, watch your favourite movie clips on your laptop or mobile. Do whatever it takes for you to remain happy. To summarise, the first step is DECIDE TO BE HAPPY and the second step is DEVELOP A HABIT TO REMAIN HAPPY by following those simple small steps.

Follow these simple steps we’ll talk more on this in the next part.

J

It costs nothing to smile!

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Be confident about life

When you don't feel confident about life. Repeat the following statement several times in  a day ' I am a lovely child of God, I have all the rights to be happy. He's surely going to help me out. I surrender myself to him without any reservation.' Feel confident about what you say. Offer all your problems to him and be rest assured that he'll help you out. Have great faith in his power and kindness. Understand problems never come without solutions. If there is a problem there has to be a solution. Problem is the real GURU of life. It helps you grow. So.........No worries...........cheer up!!!!!!!!!!

The power of silence - Part II

You can hear your inner voice in complete silence. This is when you are in a position to receive wisdom from the universe. When you look at the outer world for any kind of help or anything, you tend to underestimate your potentials. For the entire universe is inside you. You feel that there is tremendous power that lies inside you when you try to unite yourself with infinite. You see that you have all solutions to your problems inside you. You don’t need to look at somebody from the outside from any sort of help. It is just that you need to practice it and try to reach a point where you can hear your inner voice. Our body is a means to establish a connection with Infinite (God) in which lies a soul. We all have pure souls, which have faded out. What we all need to do is to reach out to purity level where we are in a unity with infinite. Where we can identify ourselves and know who we are and what the purpose of our lives is. It is possible through silence. Silence is our strength. It is a strong way to reach out Infinite. It has worked for everybody. It’ll work for you. We all have experienced that all great monks have achieved their goals through the power of silence. We call it ‘Tapasya',’ which is very much putting oneself into complete silence and establishing an association with God. We don’t require to do any sort of ‘Tapasya’ today. However, to realize or notice our great potential, we need to develop a habit of putting ourselves into complete silence for at least 15-20 minutes every day. At your will or convenience, you may increase the time frame, and I am sure it’ll work for you like a magic.

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The power of silence

Sometimes silence is the answer of all your questions. If you are not able to decide on something, just close your eyes and be quiet for some time. Try to establish a connection with the Infinite (God) and seek an answer from him. When you are doing it for the first time, you may not be successful. You may not be able to listen to what it has to say to you because you have stopped hearing it since long. You are so much attracted to your outer world, that you have kept ignoring your inner world. However, if you include it in your daily routine and make sure that you go into silence for 10-15 minutes every day, either in the morning after you wake up or at night before you go to bed. I am sure you will be able to listen to your inner voice, which is very much present inside everyone. Understand one thing; you have the entire universe inside you. Feel the tremendous power that God has provided you. Never underestimate yourself or your strength. Listen to your inner voice; reactivate its power by just going into silence. If you can start doing it henceforth, you will experience miraculous change in your life.